Category Archives: Musings

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At 39

That time of year again… I usually take an annual glammed up self portrait around my birthday.  A nice picture of me that I can frame up for the hubby and just for posterity’s sake.  I usually forget to print them, though.  This year I actual have several “self portraits” due to this blog, but [...]

Running around casual wear and some body musings

A rare share of my weekend clothes.  I got up early on Saturday morning, got in my workout, dyed my hair, fed the kids and then we were OFF! I have been trying to switch my workouts to be in the morning.   Not only do I dislike working out…I dislike getting up early at [...]

Accepting those flaws

The other day I was talking about skirts with one of my co-workers.  I was wearing one that was just above the knee and she said she didn’t like to wear anything showing her knees because they looked “old”. Whaaaaaaa?? She’s a very cute, petite 40-year old woman who has nothing to worry about. I [...]

Family pictures

When taking family pictures, the clothing that everyone wears is pretty important.  It can add or detract from the photos.  I think the best pictures are the ones that show the styles of the period in a good way.  This is why I generally choose to have all our family pictures printed in toned black [...]

Vanity sizing

I bought this dress the day before, and had to wear it right away.  Yes, I am one of those cut-the-tags-off-and-wear-it-people.  I have kids and too much laundry as it is, and this seemed pretty clean so I wore it. That’s how I roll. Anyways, this dress is a size 4.  I have a substantial [...]

Going back

Lately I have been buying and then returning. I bought a couple of Spanx slips to wear with a tight dress that I bought at a low weight. Never a good idea…buying something at your low weight. I hope to wear it again, but I know it will be months. At least it was only [...]

The fashionable mom

Today in our society there is a decidedly casual atmosphere.  Jeans and t-shirts are the order of the day, with a few yoga pants thrown in for good measure.  If you work in an office, there are few and far between that still wear suits on a daily basis (law offices and high finance seem [...]

My husband probably *almost* wishes I hadn’t lost the weight

I am in a quandry.  I apparently can’t go window shopping without buying the window.  Often I want to just go try on clothes because I like clothes.  I think to myself, “Don’t buy anything today!”  I can usually manage to not buy.  Unless it is jeans.  For some reason I have a hard time [...]

Countdown to vacation

The hubby and I booked a vacation someplace warm…yeeehaw!  Of course, that means I will need to don a swimsuit.  Oh dear. I seem to have acquired a few extra pounds during this busy season at work due to lack of exercise and lack of self control in eating copious amounts of chocolate, cheese, and [...]

Aging

I continue to struggle with getting older. I am, without a doubt, getting older.  I have wrinkles.  I have loose skin from my pregnancies and stretch marks.  I have varicose veins. I struggle to accept that this, right now, is as good as it is going to get.  I don’t want that.  I want my body [...]